Yes, It is Kind of Like Begging...
Yes, it kind of like begging. Here I am, building a website and putting myself up for embarrassment and ridicule (Well kind of... my face is hidden) but giving advice for divorcing dads. I am a real person. Just a simple man who loves his daughter and fought as hard as he had to so he could ensure that his daughter grows up in the best possible moral and physical atmosphere and has the best chance in the world that she can to be successful and happy. i am now a dad with custody. There was no amount I wouldn't spend, but now that it is over... I find myself with the harsh reality of having to pay for this custody battle! On top of that I had a very harsh financial settlement to make with mommy! Ouch! I could take extra jobs and all that other good stuff. But being the primary custodian and dad with custody takes up a lot of time and responsibility. I need to make sure I am as alert and awake and there for my little girl. So here I am begging you to help out and donate to pay my divorce bills!
Why Should you Donate to Little Old Me?
A man winning custody, even in this day and age isn't easy. Courts tend to still go with the mother... especially when it comes to having a young child involved. Throw in that my daughter is only 3 and half years old, her mom isn't on drugs or a prostitute, and that this is the south, and you will see that this was no easy feat. It took lots of money and lots of time. Too much money!
I am also hoping that if just one person reads this site (a rich sympathetic single dad? Oprah? Or one who gets inspired to fight to protect their own child against the odds, then it will be time well served. Notice I haven't bashed anyone on this site and haven't bashed women in general... maybe I've bashed the South... but it's an accurate bash. I just truly believed that my daughter is better off having one place to live, but yet spend time and have both parents in her life. It doesn't have to be the way it used to be! The better parent can win!

If you can't afford to donate, help by passing this site on to your friends. Show them what is quite possibly the stupidest or most interesting site you have seen in a while. Let them be the judge of whether I'm a poor soul or a greedy web guy!
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Ten Tips for Finding a Good Divorce AttorneySo you have had to go out and decide to get an attorney. yes there are certain givens... a lawyer from a REAL law school. |
Who Do You Get Advice From Everyone will know what to do. They will all have advice to offer you whether you want it or not. They will all have something to input based on the aunt Fanny, their cousin, neighbor or sister. |
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Be A Parent When you're divorced with children it is important to remember you are both your children's parents. Try to act like it. Something as simple as a taking a kid to a soccer game wasn't that hard when you were married. |
My Other Projects Maybe I will actually get enough help so I can make time for actual projects! Ya think so? maybe? |
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